How they relate to sex work
As someone who has been involved in both the sex work and kink communities for several years, I still encounter unique fetishes that I was previously unaware of. That is why interactive communities like ATW are such a great opportunity for kinksters and sex workers to learn from each other. However, having worked as a sex worker, there is one topic that I believe is far more misunderstood than others: escort girls and financial domination. I want to set the record straight about what escort girls are and are not, and how they relate to sex work, femdom, and other perverse topics. Please keep in mind that these are my interpretations of these topics, and are not the only interpretations that exist. What is an escort girl? So what is financial domination? As the name suggests, the escort girl fetish is a power exchange with a financial aspect and is often (but not always) associated with femdom. As with any dominance/submission relationship, this dynamic may involve two or more parties. While the submissive is almost always male, any combination of genders and sexes can occur in an escort-girl dynamic. The dominant individual in an escort girl relationship is sometimes called the “money queen” or “financial queen,” while the submissive is often called the “paycheck pig” or “money slave,” although the parties involved choose their titles depending on their interests and the nature of the relationship.
The escort-girl dynamic can be expressed in a variety of ways. Someone with a paycheck pig fetish wants to be financially dominated by their dominant. The submissive’s motivations vary from person to person. For example, some submissives want to be humiliated and degraded because of their fetish, or they want to feel like their Dominant is “taking” their money (although in reality, they have voluntarily agreed to give their money to the Dominant and thoroughly enjoy it). On the other hand, some submissives enjoy a worshipful role, such as giving money as a sign of gratitude for the Dominant’s attention or mere presence. Common activities and games within the escort girl dynamic include blackmail fantasies, control of bank account information, aggressive demands for ever-increasing financial payments, humiliation, and humiliation for being paid.
As you might expect, escort girls are very sensitive by nature. Not only must the Dominant be fully aware of and respect the emotional, mental, and physical boundaries of the submissive, but they must also be careful not to overstep the submissive’s financial boundaries. The same goes for the submissive: they need to set boundaries, talk to their dominant about them, and understand when they need to enforce them. Done wrong, it can destroy the submissive’s emotional and financial health.
As you can see, there are countless scenarios in which sex work is expressed, some of which include sex work, and some of which do not. But sex work and financial domination are two entirely different things.
Conclusion
ATW is not a site solely for financial domination, but it is a great place to get involved in sex work, as countless talented dominants offer sex work as part of their paid services. Additionally, ATW is made up of fellow kink buyers and sellers, many of whom enjoy engaging in collaborative kink play on their dashboards. This means it’s the perfect place for dominatrixes and their submissives to play public drainage games or take part in humiliation games in front of an unbiased, approving audience. Remember: as with any kink game, research and discussion should always be done before you start playing. Watch out, kinksters!
